1.0BodyMind | Adem Aanraking Aandachthttps://bodymind.nl/enrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="7EZtrWTFxA"><a href="https://bodymind.nl/en/mentally-stronger/alain-de-botton-on-love">Alain de Botton on love</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://bodymind.nl/en/mentally-stronger/alain-de-botton-on-love/embed#?secret=7EZtrWTFxA" width="600" height="338" title="“Alain de Botton on love” — BodyMind | Adem Aanraking Aandacht" data-secret="7EZtrWTFxA" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /* <![CDATA[ */ /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://bodymind.nl/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js /* ]]> */ </script> https://bodymind.nl/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Lifde.jpg259194The most superficially irrational, immature, lamentable, but nonetheless common of all the presumptions of love is that the person to whom we have pledged ourselves is not just the center of our emotional existence but is also, as a result - and yet in a very strange, objectively insane and profoundly unjust way - responsible for everything that happens to us, for good or ill. Therein lies the peculiar and sick privilege of love