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The self-critical part of ourselves is “strikingly unimaginative” – a relentless complainer whose repertoire of tirades is so redundant as to become, to any objective observer, risible and tragic at the same time:<\/span><\/p>\n

Were we to meet this figure socially, as it were, this accusatory character, this internal critic, we would think there was something wrong with him<\/strong>. He would just be boring and cruel. We might think that something terrible had happened to him. That he was living in the aftermath, in the fallout of some catastrophe. And we would be right.<\/span><\/p>\n

To the original article by Adam Philips >><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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