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15 Things Narcissists Don’t Do
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\nDo you know a narcissist? From a psychological perspective, there are several characteristics that define a narcissistic person. They are extremely egotistic, with an exaggerated sense of self-importance, have fantasies of unlimited success and brilliance, expect special treatment, like to exploit others, lack empathy, are filled with envy, expect people to envy them and are extremely arrogant.<\/span><\/p>\n

While these traits should be easy to spot in a person, you need to remember that narcissists are tricky people. They are manipulative and are easily able to con you into thinking they are different. No one wants to fall for the manipulation of a narcissist. It would be helpful to know who to stay away from, so to help you identify them: here are some things narcissists don’t do.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. They don’t show their true selves<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissists are manipulative, so of course they won’t show you who they really are when you first meet them. They lure you into believing that they are someone completely different, maybe someone sweet and kind. You won’t find out their true personality until it’s too late
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\n2. They don’t incorporate security into relationships<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissists tend to keep you on your toes. The last thing they want is for you to feel safe and secure in the relationship. It gives them pleasure to be above you in every way, and when you feel insecure it makes them secure in turn.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. They never allow you to see them as the bad guy<\/span><\/strong>
\nIn a narcissist’s mind they can never be the bad guy and they make sure you know it too. No matter what the situation is the blame will ultimately fall on you and this will make you feel like a terrible person, however they don’t care. You feeling bad about yourself is exactly what they want.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. They don’t like losing control<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissists are control freaks and losing control makes them extremely upset or angry. They need to have control of people and their surroundings. It gives them a sense of security in knowing that you will do whatever they want without question.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. They won’t let people prove them wrong<\/span><\/strong>
\nA narcissist will argue that black is white until even you begin to believe it. This is one of the biggest traps to fall into when being around a narcissist. Arguing with them is a waste of time and effort; their manipulative nature will cause you to start doubting yourself and soon you’ll start believing them.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. They don’t see others as equals<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissists believe they are on top of the world – they don’t believe anyone is on the same level as them. If you try and associate yourself with them as an equal, then they will do anything in your power to bring you down so they are on top once again.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. They never have sympathy<\/span><\/strong>
\nThese are the kinds of people who laugh while everyone cries during a sad movie. They don’t really care that your mother just went through a divorce or your parent just died. They don’t care about your feelings and they’re tired of hearing about your recent breakup or job loss. If it doesn’t concern them, they won’t bother with it.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. They don’t do anything that doesn’t benefit them<\/span><\/strong>
\nThey didn’t buy you dinner out of the kindness of their heart… They are probably going to ask you for a world of favors afterwards. Narcissists don’t do anything without a purpose to benefit them. Giving a narcissist what they want is the last thing you want to do.
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\n9. They don’t take orders from others<\/span><\/strong>
\nDon’t try to order a narcissist around. They are egotistical people, and trying to take control is a big hit to their self-esteem. It wouldn’t be surprising to later find yourself in a plot for vengeance later on, just for trying to take control of a narcissist.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. They don’t like to admit they have feelings<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissist or not, everyone has feelings. They undoubtedly feel emotions differently to other people but a narcissist will often say, “I don’t have feelings.” This is of course an excuse for all the horrible things they can sometimes do. They use the pretense of not knowing how emotions work to get away with anything without people thinking badly of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. They don’t listen<\/span><\/strong>
\nThey don’t listen, they just wait for you to shut up so they can say what’s on their mind. They really don’t care about what you have to say, all they’re concerned about is your willingness to listen to them rant on and on.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. They don’t stick around<\/span><\/strong>
\nIf you’re staring to bore them in any friendship or relationship, expect a narcissist to pack up and leave. They want attention, and if you aren’t giving them what they want then don’t expect them to stick around.<\/span><\/p>\n

13. They don’t pick unattractive friends<\/span><\/strong>
\nAs mentioned, narcissists don’t do anything that doesn’t benefit them. Picking friends is one of those examples. They surround themselves with attractive and upper-class people making them feel more superior and invincible. It will be rare to find a narcissist surrounded with an unattractive, undesirable crowd.<\/span><\/p>\n

14. They don’t give compliments<\/span><\/strong>
\nNarcissists want to be complimented. They don’t have to make people feel good about themselves because it’s not their job to do so. You’d be lucky to get a compliment from a narcissist, and even if you do you have reason to be suspicious.<\/span><\/p>\n

15. They don’t like to be polite<\/span><\/strong>
\nAt the best of times a narcissistic sense of superiority allows them to feel exempt from the rules of society – common courtesy being one of these exemptions. No matter how tempting it is, don’t disrespect a narcissist, because they are definitely not going to turn the other cheek.<\/span><\/p>\n

Source – Lifehack<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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