People living in irrelationship activate behavioral routines learned in childhood that relieved anxiety by making their parents feel better. We made the acronym GRAFTS as a simple tool to help organize our thinking: Good, Right, Absent, Funny, Tense and Smart.
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It is not about happiness anymore, but about the 4 pillars of meaning: belonging, purpose, transcendence and storytelling
Since the publication of Men Come from Mars, Women Come from Venus, it has sold millions of copies worldwide. The secret to this book? Men and mourners think, feel, communicate and love differently. They seem to come from different planets! John Gray explains it flawlessly with this metaphor. If you understand that sometimes you don't understand anything about each other, many problems are solved immediately.
